There is an issue

Have you two ever discussed all of this? Strippers, porn, etc? I'm not a fan of any of this (Diablo 3 Power Leveling), although I don't require the lights to be out. I agree w/the person that said people can do anything for each other in a marriage/committed relationship & it doesn't make you a whore. A friend of mine had an issue w/her husband of 15 yrs was ignoring her & getting himself off to porn. We get that guys are visual & all... but "fantasy" world is just that, fantasy. There are medical articles on the dangers of porn, it can be addictive & destroy relationships. That stuff is not necessary. I do feel it would benefit both of you to talk to someone, work out all the issues that are showing up. You two have grown together for 30 years, there has to be real love there! I have had many experiences over the years & would be more than willing to talk w/you more on any of this (Diablo 3 Power Leveling).