Poz Club Night

I think having a club night for HIV+ people to meet and socialize is great (Diablo 3 Gold). Mix in the message of protection and prevention along with a chance to meet others with HIV is a positive thing. It's very lonely and isolating being positive and as for dating forget it. The stigma is worse in the gay community then it is the the straight community. I am all for Stopping the spread of HIV but I think your taking this party to far in your head as a celebration rather then a nice evening where HIV+ folks who do not have other avenues to socialize. I know many folks who are HIV+ and who are lonely and isolated. It sucks! Don't get this party twisted and maybe join in with your message of prevention and speak to the poz folks. Maybe they will give you some positive ideas for your cause.

"Hit and run sort of thing" is an indication of a fear of intimacy. Since those feeling come from thoughts of males who might be sexually stimulating to you, that's where the social programming comes into play. If you read stories of bisexual men (and sometimes even gay men), you'll see this isn't uncommon and used to be even more common (Diablo 3 Gold). Now that society is more accepting, and guys don't always take on all the baggage and programming, it's easier for men to accept that they find other guys sexually attractive.